today we will be in the book of first john chapter 5. why don't you turn over there and meet me in verse 14 and today let's talk about prayer essentials and by essentials i mean those things that must be brought into consideration and worked out in order for god to answer your prayer praise god now let's pray first before we jump into today's message heavenly father we come before you thank you for this beautiful day we give you all of the praise and we ask o god that the anointing the illumination of your holy spirit would flow that we can hear and understand your word and take it today and apply it to our lives father we thank you for helping us to approach you in a way and talk to you in a in a way that's pleasing to you biblically so that our prayers can be answered by you father thank you for helping us in jesus name we all agree and say amen now let's drop down to verse 14 and it says now this is the confidence that we have in him and there is something that brings a tremendous confidence in asking god for something now when we're talking about asking really that would be what is noted in scripture as supplication sometimes christians they talk a lot about intercession they say we're going to an intercessory prayer meeting and they'll go to the prayer meeting and oftentimes there's not a lot of intercession going on it's more of what we would call supplication they're making certain types of requests for perhaps certain needs maybe for the church or for the ministry or something like that intercession is when you're standing in the gap for the lost and you're you're praying for the lost you you are in a sense taking their place because they don't know how to pray they don't know god so you're standing in the gap for them and you're interceding for them but supplication is when you get into this area of making petitions and requests to the lord so sometimes you know people will go to a prayer meeting and they'll say this is an intercessory prayer meeting but really they should just call it a prayer meeting because uh you don't always know what direction the holy spirit is going to leave that prayer meeting so it's good to just leave it open because you may be interceding you but it could be supplicating and so you have to go in the route of the holy spirit so here's something that's fascinating though when you come before the lord particularly in this area of supplication you're making a request of god there's something that you want god to do in your life if you have this ironed out and uh i can't promise you that it uh you'll get it ironed out immediately although some things you can but there was others you may have to work it over a little bit but if you get this straight you'll have uh tremendous confidence when you come before the lord in prayer and also it is sometimes i i would use the word shocking and i use that word cautiously but sometimes it can be shocking how fast god can answer a prayer when things are lined up right and we have these prayer essentials baked into the prayer praise the lord i would even say maybe besides the word shocking i would also use the word easy it just everything lines up right because you're you've got it in the right order and so when you ask god sometimes the prayer is answered and it happens so quick and so easy you're just like wow well you're doing some things right in that prayer because we know god will do his part but we need to also do our part and that is revealed here in this scripture as we continue we're about to see it now this is the confidence and you need that this is the confidence that we have in him that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us one of the greatest things that will strip you of confidence in your prayer time is not really being settled about the thing that you're asking god for and you know you come back next week and you've changed your mind and you go down a different road and you come back a week after that you've changed your mind again and uh maybe it's all on that same subject but you're not even really sure if that's what god wants you to do but you're maybe you're pushing a hit on it and you just you know you're like well i'll just it'll it'll work i'll i'm settled with this but uh if you don't feel in your heart that god's in it that this is god's plan for you or this is what the route god wants for you then there can be a lot of hesitation there can be uncertainty and if you're just trying to plow through that you know well i'm not you know you're overriding your conscience in a sense where well you know you're thinking well i'm not even really sure about this but oh well i'm just going to ask anyhow then the confidence won't be there and then of course you know just time goes on and on and on uh not that you know some prayers can't be answered over a lengthy period of time because sometimes god does that to develop faith and patience in us uh and that's okay but there are some prayers there they're never going to get answered because they're wrong and they're there there is something that is being asked for that is not in the will of god so this is the confidence that we have in him that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us and that's why we also need to balance scripture with other scripture you can lift some verses out of context in the area of teaching about prayer where it would give the impression if you didn't have these other verses to balance it it would give the impression that you can ask god for anything and he'll do it almost like god has a blank checkbook and just ask anything and yeah you know he'll he'll fill it in and he'll do it for you but it doesn't work like that and i would say this to you if there is something that perhaps you're asking god for but it is not his will for your life then you should be willing to relinquish that and let that go and really have an attitude of where lord if this is not for me then may my hands never touch it and really even going deeper may my heart just disconnect from that let it not be something that i i'm pulled towards now i'd better clarify this for those that are young in the faith when we're talking about asking god for things that would be according to his will those are things that would line up and agree and harmonize and it's all in harmony with what god's word reveals belongs to us so i'm not trying to say don't ask god for healing no because healing belongs to you who praise the lord well pastor stephen i'm not going to ask the lord for a long life no longevity belongs to the people of god and it also belongs to those who meet certain biblical conditions there is one condition that has a promise attached to it which is honor your father and mother now those that do that it says it says that it may go well with them okay that's the first part of that promise and the second part that they may live long on the earth so living long on the earth or longevity is a blessing that can come to those who are walking with the lord and of course honoring your parents now if you dishonor them uh you know you're going to put yourself uh on some very unstable ground there that that's a direct uh regard to god's word that's being disobeyed and we want to really be in agreement with god's word so if it's out of bounds of scripture then we realize let's not ask for that but there are so many things that god has for you god has prosperity for you god has strength and blessing and anointing for you god has you know provision and grace god has every good thing that you need so there is a lot on the table that you can reach for and i would say if we kind of look at the overall view of the body of christ i would have to say there's very few probably that are asking for things that would be considered biblically unlawful because your own heart your own conscience which is the voice of your heart or the voice of your spirit is going to convict you if you're asking for something that you know is unbiblical immoral uh illegal unlawful or something like that you just know hey why in the world would god do that that's this is wrong so god's not going to uh ever honor something that is disobedient he can't that would be a contradiction of his own character nature so we want to ask according to his will but i would have to say again coming back to this that most believers are leaving a lot on the table that they never touch that totally belongs to them it totally belongs to them so in the sense of reaching for something that does belong to you you want to reach for your portion with the children of israel with the 12 tribes each tribe had their own special allotment of territory and that territory was theirs at the same time there were other nations that would come up to the boundaries of the israeli tribes and the lord said to the children of israel uh that does not belong to you that that belongs to the people of you know this or that uh nation you know moab or whatever it would be so that's their land leave their land alone you can't have uh even one sandal size footprint size of land that belongs to them and not only that you don't need theirs you've got your own so you have to reach for your portion and i would say with great confidence that what god has for you is more than enough it's big enough it's it's uh got enough blessing in it to put you over for an entire lifetime and even a lot more than that the things that god has for you are enough to keep you busy should you live to be 120. so if there are some things that the lord says hey you know that's good but that's not for you then you should be willing just to say okay that's cool because something about the time that we are living in and i realize that for decades now we have understood that we're in the last days and you know the days keep rolling by so we're getting deeper and deeper into the end time scenario that will soon be unfolding that is all uh recorded in the book of revelation it's it's so amazing to have uh you know the the final chapter revealing who wins and everything already written down already pre-recorded but we're living in a time where you certainly don't want to be hindered with something that god looks at and says you know it's not that is wrong or sinful it's just that if if you have that you're going to really get tangled up into that and uh it would be best for you not to do that we all have 24 hours in the day but you know you're going to need some time for sleep some time for food some time for work sometime for you know family relationships and and good friend relationships and things like that and then you're gonna have some free time you're gonna have time left over that maybe you call it me time you know to do the things that make you happy and it's during those times that you have the ability of how you spend that me time that allows you to either pull closer to the lord and really lock into his eternal plan for your life and be involved in the kingdom of the lord that is ever expanding now the kingdom is within it's within the hearts of men eventually one day it will be also manifested in the natural with the natural type kingship with jesus as king ruling over all the earth but for now i think it's really good to stay light on your feet and to be in a place where you're mobile and should the lord have need of you you can respond instead of bogged down because you have taken on all kinds of responsibilities and all kinds of hobbies and all kinds of commitments that the lord never asked you to get involved in now we all have something on the inside of us that needs uh an area that i would call recreation but a lot of times this area of recreation has been so enlarged particularly in american culture that we have so many options of entertainment and so many options of things to reach for and some of these things that you could reach for they all require a learning curve you can buy it but the manual to understand how to do it is this thick or it takes a year of training or you know on and on it goes and you only have so much of your 24 hours of the day that you can uh you know explore these various things and uh anything really that you also explore or get into it's it's just like anything else in life if you want to get good at it you're going to have to put time into it so if you take up golf you know you don't really have fun in golf until you actually start to get kind of good at it but golf is one of those games that it's not based on brute strength or anything like that it's all technical and the only way that you get good at things that have technical skills is repetition over and over and over so in other words it takes time so anything really that you pick up you just uh you're gonna have to put a lot of time in it if you really want to get to a place where you kind of like or you know good at it or something like that but i think those are things that we have to consider because you can only get good at so many things uh you really want to have just your your main thing that you excel at and you don't want to be as they call it you know the jack of all trades master of none uh i don't think that's a good way to live your life you do want a balanced life a color for life you you will have a a life that has various portfolio elements of it this that you know relationships friendships you walk with god this that and the other but i would encourage you in your asking things of god to don't go over into areas where you're asking for stuff that even if you have the money to buy it this might not be the best idea praise the lord because money does create new options it does create new opportunities and it really is a it's an element of power you can do things and step into things that previously you couldn't do so just because you can do it though that doesn't mean that you should do it you know there's a lot of ministers uh that you know this whole thing with covet and a lot of things closing down there's a lot of filtering and shifting and shaking going on right now and oh my goodness i it is amazing how many ministers uh are right at a place where they're saying you know i've been in some things that i shouldn't have been into and the reason i've ended up in this place is because i have gotten so involved in so many things i've gotten so busy that i neglected my devotional life and my prayer shield went down and i find myself now uh in scenarios that i'm having to publicly uh apologize for and repent for and i tell you what those are those are not fun places to be that's a that's a place no man or woman of god would ever want to be in but there's a lot of exposure and i believe it's all necessary because in many ways pride comes before destruction a haughty spirit before a fall and you have to really kick over a lot of hurdles and be a very prideful person for a lot of these things to go public because often god would so often would rather deal with it in in private and uh so that the ministry can go forward but some people who they think the world revolves around them and it's not till later they find out it revolves around the lord praise god but sometimes they they suffer a lot of loss you know what when you have greater flexibility it doesn't mean that you need to always use it one of the greatest runners in the world he has the world record for the men's 800 meters that's two laps around the track and uh his name is david rudisha from kenya i think he's technically retired now but he said he set a time that um it's going to be really really hard for anybody to ever beat that time you know because the 800 is a very difficult race because you have to have extreme speed almost sprinter level type speed but you have to have endurance because it's the half half of a distance of a mile so it's uh it's kind of like what they call the thoroughbred race it's like the you know the highest quality runners are going to be in that field so he ran a time that was so fast and just a couple of olympics back and and set the world record that was in the london olympics but you know what even even with all of the the fame that he had and all of the wealth that he had and the big shoe contracts and things like that you know you could find david rudicia still back there in kenya sitting under a tree eating carrots now he could go out and eat steak and stuff like that but you know his body and his physiology and his ability to have this super high you know oxygen content ability to uh you know run like a racehorse he's just like why would i change things even if i can't he said i'm happy with my life i love my life and i like you know eating what i eat living where i live and uh yeah he had a nice car he had he had a few nice things in life but he didn't go crazy and because he didn't go crazy he was able to maintain that very high streak of winning and super fast times much much longer when than what normal people do you know you think about these championship teams think about a championship football team they win a super bowl the next thing you know they're all doing commercials together the moment you see that happening stuff like that happening you already know they're starting to go down and sure enough the next year they don't win it again why too much partying too much too many open doors too much too many opportunities and uh and uh you know and they lose that edge they lose that edge so in the in the end times don't lose your edge even as the lord blesses you uh really be a person that stays in prayer daily and also you can get real good in prayer when you really iron out this detail of asking according to his will god does know best he really does um i i was asking the lord about something uh a little while back and uh i felt really good about it but then uh i i just said well lord i'm not really sure and i kind of left it hanging i left it hanging for about three weeks and um a couple of days ago the lord came to me in a vision and he he said something to me that answered what i what it well i kind of paused on something didn't know which way to go yes or no and he came to me and basically told me to go ahead and go it was very pleasing to him but i could also tell that there are there are certain things you can do see the closer you get to the lord if you really know him and uh you have to understand there's so many christians they love the lord but they don't walk with the lord in the sense of really being like hey my life is laid out to you i'll serve you and do anything for you that's rare now you may think it's not trust me that that's rare there's a lot of christians they want to go to heaven they love the lord and they are saved but nobody's going to tell them how to live their life not even god and so when the lord sees a man or a woman even a child that that is like lord i'll do anything that you want me to do then the lord has somebody special he's going to work with them in a special way so you have to understand that when you come into a relationship like that it's different uh because you get yoked to the lord but remember he said my yoke is easy my burden is light so the closer you get you actually get more freedom uh you know people sometimes uh how can i say casual christians they look at missionaries they think oh that poor missionary who's uh you know squandering his life by having to go overseas and he's missing out on all thing you know the thing is no he's not missing out on anything he's the one that's blessed he looks at you and realizes you don't get it you don't you don't see it and he's actually happier in his heart or her heart and uh you know it's it's just the thing of the heart so these things are are very fascinating you have to ask according to god's will because you're a representative of him on the earth and if we know that he hears us whatever we ask we know that we have the petitions that we have asked of him now even when you get the thumbs up from the lord even when you get the green light from the lord in other words you know he's heard and you ask you know he's heard that doesn't mean that you never pray about it again i would say that you don't really need to ask for it again from the sense of like um you know you're originally asking for it again but i would say it's totally fine to keep praying about it because you're you're you're bathing that in prayer you're not saying lord i'm back and i'm asking for that again i don't think you heard me the first time no you actually know he heard you why you're asking in agreement with his will you know that this is good between you and the lord everything's fine and you're very confident that he's going to do it that confidence again comes from knowing that you've asked according to his will and so i would say just keep bathing it in prayer stay with it stay with it and it'll just it'll just pop right out praise the lord it'll happen so often it can even happen sooner than you think easier than you think but this thing of really getting the will of god ironed out is so important it's more important than money it's more important than the very manifestation of what it is you're asking for it's just knowing lord is this okay with you and me um i have a book here this is called the autobiography of george mueller this is available online uh you know you could pick up one of these at a used bookstore or probably a new bookstore for you know five or seven dollars you can probably get it on the internet for about the three dollars but um uh george muller you know raised up there in england that beautiful orphanage with all of these children and he really trusted the lord for the provision the feed and care for all of these young people who had no father or mother and you know he had to take care of the kids and that's clothing them feeding them housing them he has to have teachers for them and you know everything else that goes along with that and the lord provided over and over and over again so he was a really a man that had a really good understanding about faith but he also learned that the lord required involvement in all of the major decisions and oftentimes as mueller said even the very small decisions concerning anything to do with that orphanage so if he was going to expand and needed a new place lord is it okay that if we is it okay if we buy land or do we buy a building and the lord would reveal his will to him and sometimes the lord would say i want you to buy land and so he would believe god for the money for the land he would buy the land and then he'd like then he'd be the next stage well lord if i'm going to build i need an architect so he would pray for god to give him up you know a building designer and then somebody highly skilled as an architect would show up and say i you know i just feel led to render my services to you at no charge to design a building for you do you need that he'd be like yes that's exactly what i need and uh he would just have answers to prayer over and over and over again and it was because he was praying according to god's will and i want to read a just a very short little example that he gave because he kept a journal and that's basically what this little book is it's an autobiography and also his journaling notes of the many answered prayers that god did for him so here's one from january the 12th 1841 that tells you when he lived and this is when his uh ministry was doing very well and so let me read a day in the life of george mueller to you praise the lord okay january the 12th 1841 this is what he said today i received a letter from a brother who gave me the right to draw upon his bank account during this year up to one thousand pounds now that was a lot of money back then it may be used for any brother or sister who have it in their hearts to serve as missionaries in the east indies and whom i consider called for this service as far as i am able to judge all right so a rich christian brother said look i got i have a bank account and uh you find any missionaries or any missionaries show up that any people that tell you hey we want to be missionaries to the east indies uh in a sense they're already funded before they even ask because this guy's got the money in the bank and he's given mueller permission to pull from that account up to a thousand pounds now mueller said this power or the this blessing you know to have access to that account lasted only for that year okay so he's writing about this in january so he has a whole year you know for somebody to walk in a couple or an individual to walk and say hey i want to be a missionary and they may not know it but mueller's already got the money to fund them completely okay this power lasted only for that year but no suitable people offered themselves for this service this is what he said finances can be obtained much more easily than suitable individuals when he's talking about suitable individuals he's talking about believers who are qualified to go who are qualified to do something that's where the real challenge is not the money it's finding the qualified people who want to go who are prepared to go and are willing to make that sacrifice to go now this is what he said indeed in all my experience i have found that if i could only settle that a certain thing to be done was according to the will of god the money was soon obtained to carry it into effect now that doesn't mean that just because you know the perfect will of god and you pray about it that all you know money for any project or anything you're believing for is going to show up real soon he had some large faith projects usually those were the building projects that he really had to pray on it and stay in faith and keep believing god for the money but eventually it would all come in some some of the big projects that didn't happen overnight but again i i agree with him 100 he said i have found that if i could only settle that a certain thing to be done was according to the will of god the money was soon obtained to carry it into effect so it's not so much about needing the money or god i need this uh lord is this okay with you it's all it's all in the eyes of god revolving around this one question is it god's will for your life if we ask anything according to his will he hears us what you're asking is it according to his will praise the lord and that's something that i can't answer for you unless it was something scriptural you know pastor stephen i'm asking god for this well that that's fine that's that's that's perfectly uh you know uh biblical to ask for that so so if it's something biblical then i could answer that just by based upon the what up the teachings of god's word would instruct us is right and what's wrong but other questions that get into areas of your own personal walk with god and god's path for you and god's direction for you and uh you know his plan for your life those are things that you have to iron out just between you and the lord and just because god said yes to somebody else doesn't mean that god would say yes to you you're gonna have to go before the lord see israel really wanted a king they looked at all of the other neighboring nations the other nations had their own kings and the kings would raise an army and lead their people off into battle and the israelites were like well you know we want that and they they told samuel the prophet we want a king and he said oh no no don't don't do this and they kept pushing and pushing and pushing it and eventually the lord spoke to samuel and said look that they're they're not rejecting you they're rejecting me as their king so um the lord allowed to israel to have a king and you know what the israelites got they got a king that was just like them stubborn and carnal and difficult to work with and it was like a mirror image of them now the lord did honor their request but the whole timing was off everything was off and the whole kingship of saul was really just all in all a big mess and you know what once they got into the mess it's not like uh god said well now that you realize you've made a mistake just they all cried out oh we've made a horrible mistake and samuel was like yeah you really did but it wasn't like god jumped in there and bailed him out and said okay let's just call off this experiment let's let's call it off no no the lord's like well you got what you wanted and uh so he's yours and so you know the next thing they knew they're they're now they're getting taxed they never had those types of taxations before but oh now you have a king in a royal court and so where's the money gonna come to pay for all of that well it's gonna come out of your own pocket and so everything else and just like samuel said he said hey you want a king well he's gonna take your sons from you whether you want to keep your son or not too bad he's going to come and take him he's going to add them to the army and he's going to start taking a portion of your food and a portion of your crops and on and on it went to the point where when solomon was king he was taxing the daylights out of people and it was not good it was not good so uh there is a place for righteous government uh it's never gonna be right until the lord comes and rules and reigns over the whole earth from jerusalem now david will be king over israel the twelve apostles will govern over each tribe but the lord himself during the millennium or the one thousand year reign of christ he will be governing over the whole planet praise the lord and he'll show the world finally how it's supposed to be done the right way praise god thank you jesus so ask according to his will and then stay on that just lord i've got it i'm dialed in and stay on it and just pray it in believe it in praise it in thank god for it uh put works to that faith you know one of the best things of giving evidence that you believe you've received it just praising god in advance for it thanking him for it but yes continue the pray over not from the sense of you're asking for it over and over again but just you're just praying lord i thank you for it i praise you for it i know you've heard my prayer lord i just continue to pray on that i thank you that it's coming in i thank you that you're touching hearts or whatever the situation might be concerning that thing that you're believing god to do praise god wild some of these things you can have brought into your life out of your own selfish nature god do this for me god do this for me and the next thing you know you have the ability to do it and you go out and do it and then you're like israel with assault you're like oh what have i just done but you can't get out maybe you signed a contract or maybe you bought something then you can't give that back they're not going to give you a refund on that now you're stuck with it now what do you do with it [Laughter] praise the lord oh my goodness these things can be very interesting while one minister talked about how he wanted a zebra uh for some strange reason he was reading the travel brochure and saw an african travel brochure and saw a picture of a zebra and he thought oh i would love a zebra and he got a zebra uh wasn't god's will for him but he got a zebra and uh that they had uh whoever he bought it from had put it out into a special pen that he made and so uh he comes home one day and sees that the zebra that he ordered is there out in the pen so he opens up the door and you know the gate to the pen goes out into the pen to greet the zebra and that thing looked at him and fire flashed in the eyes of that animal and it came after him and it wasn't coming after him to greet him it was coming after him to trample him and he saw what was going on and he got out of that gate just as fast as he could and by the time he barely got that gate closed that animal was right up on it ready to take him apart so he said he sold the zebra to two cowboys and man was he ever glad to get rid of that zebra he said about three days later those cowboys came back and said man he said what in the world is up with that zebra he said they said that thing tried to kill us he said i know he said that's why i sold it to you it tried to kill me too so you know hey this thing of asking for uh you know all all these different things and uh the next thing you know you have a problem or you're just like oh wow um there's a lot of stories i've heard of you know some people i i won't go into this one thing but uh two things let me touch this area two things that anybody who's ever owned them say that there's two days that were the greatest days of their life one the day they bought it number two the greatest day of their life the day they got rid of it okay and that would be a yacht or motor home praise the lord and they're so happy the day they the day that they get it but then you get into it and you start to use it you realize oh wow this needs maintenance and oh this broke and uh oh how do we fix that oh now now we have to haul it to here or there to get it fixed and uh whoo you know years later there's they sell it and they're like goodbye good riddance and uh i've seen i've seen countless people go through that they have their happy moment and then reality hits oh some of these things we learned but at the same time we should learn we should learn and we should be like you know i'm going to be very selective on my asking especially when you have a god that is well able to answer prayers and so we want to ask according to his will and he loves us and he doesn't want us to be tangled up in weird goofy things that that now they've uh they've complicated their lives um praise the lord maybe i should add time shares into that you know you have you have motor homes and you have boats and uh yachts and but i you know i see people they get into these time shares i can't believe people are crazy enough to do it but you know there's some really good salesmen out there they could literally sell anything and uh so people buy these timeshares and they make all these crazy payments for 20 or 25 years and uh you know and the great day is when they they go to their timeshare but the greatest day is like oh it's finally over we got out of it thank god because the truth is most people never use those or if they do use them uh it's never what it was promised so these are all things that are learned but i think that if we really will weigh god's word and ask according to his will and when you get a check in your spirit or sometimes a direct answer from the lord that's that's not going to work out good while i think we should really put on the breaks praise god now at the same time there are so many things that the lord says yes that's okay that's okay and uh and it is okay and you'll get you'll get that that peace that inward witness of the holy spirit that you know it's okay hallelujah and you'll feel joy in your heart and the whole process will be blessed i think that's what's so good is that when god is in it it's smooth and it really is true happiness you can really enjoy the moment and you know even a couple of years later it's still a pleasant experience anything with god the entire thing will be a pleasant experience praise the lord let's uh connect this with first john chapter 3 and this would be the classic verses here in verse 21 uh and 22. beloved if our heart does not condemn us we have confidence toward god again this confidence is amazing the confidence of being in right standing with god knowing that because of who you are in christ brings you into that position before the father of being in right standing verse 22 and whatever we ask now you know and now some people have run wild with that but you can't go wild on it just because of what uh he said in chapter five uh verse 14 and so forth so you have to keep that in balance and whatever we ask we receive from him because now this is very important because we keep his commandments and do those things that are pleasing in his sight so i really do believe that if we break god's commandments just continually maybe even purposely and we do those things that are displeasing in his sight it really does short circuit faith even if you say the right thing is in your head and even if you intellectually think well you know i you know this is all okay um if you're just breaking god's commandments all the time then uh your heart is not right with god and you have to really have a clean conscience between you and the lord and as much as possible between you and others so that you can go before the lord with a clean heart and a clean conscience and ask god in prayer knowing that there's no unforgiveness in your heart knowing that you're not practicing habitually some type of thing that would dishonor the lord and it brings a great confidence praise the lord thank you lord jesus whatever we ask we receive from him because we keep his commandments now you can be a sinner and do certain biblical things that are principles and because you are following biblical principles such as financial principles of saving and you know looking for good deals and you see some of these large corporations that they are secular in nature you know nobody's up there in those corporate board meetings praying but you know they have run their business so well with biblical principles and godly you know business ethics that uh they may have so much money that they buy another business for you know three or five million dollars excuse me billion dollars sometimes because they're doing so well so those those principles will work even for an unbeliever but not in the area of prayer because prayer is only for the children of god but even as a child of god you want to obey the commandments of god because there is blessing associated always with obedience praise the lord so if there's any area in that department where certain commandments of god's word are being violated just continually over and over then i would say yes that can affect your prayer life you want to clean that up and spend time with the lord in prayer and say lord you know this is something that maybe has defeated me before but i'm here today just to draw strength from you and to overcome that and if you walk close with the lord absolutely you can overcome any besetting sin absolutely praise god god's grace and power is there for you but you must draw upon it you must draw upon it that's why some are bogged down i i know some christians they love the lord but they have been bogged down not just for a few years for a couple of decades and they're they're just never going to draw near are they saved are they going to heaven yes but do they really seek after god no not not really they seek after the the sporting event and they're not going to miss that for anything but but that's also why they can't throw off those besetting sins because they're not near enough to the lord to receive that impartation of his strength and of his power and of his beauty so that they could rise up and really begin to soar with him and of course along with that comes answered prayers wow and it is it's electrifying it's electrifying when god answers your prayers i think we would all admit that that it is always a very beautiful sacred thing praise god but just um keep that element in there of god's will lord i want to pray according to your will thank you jesus thank you jesus hallelujah glory to god hallelujah praise the lord um one good prayer that will help you now you could always meditate on the word because the word gives god standards against god's commandments his principles so you can meditate on the word and you can pray over that but here's also just a direct prayer that just hits directly that questioning of god of wanting to know his will and since it's inspired by the holy spirit you can pray it every day it's still my favorite prayer in the bible and i really like it because it's a new testament or prayer found in the new covenant so we know that it's for us it's for the believers paul wrote to the believer that would be you and me and it's colossians chapter 1 verse 9 which begins this prayer by saying for this reason we also since the day we heard it do not cease to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will now watch this this is critical it's not that you're just praying to know god's will god fill me with the knowledge of your will okay you're already going to be ahead of 90 of the others in the body christ who don't even really care they're just they're just going through life but when you want to know what god's plan for your life is or his will for your life is you can pray that god fill me with the knowledge of your will but here's the icing on the cake that you need to also include in this prayer fill me with the knowledge of your will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding so you can begin to get a good picture of god's will for your life but some of the things that you're picking up on some of the things you're sensing or maybe even seeing you need to also have the wisdom and spiritual understanding in other words wisdom and spiritual understanding will question is that for now or is that for later what we're picking up on yes it's from god and yes it's for us but should we focus or push on that now or is that an assignment that we can put more weight on that later praise the lord so that's where you want to just incorporate that prayer father fill me with the knowledge of your will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding praise the lord and that will help you not just to know god's will but how to apply it when to apply it where to apply it and things like that thank you jesus but my friends just take it before the lord i would say definitely bring the big things of your life before the lord but the closer you get to him even even the smaller things now i'm not going micro level okay we're not talking about lord should i uh lord what is your will for me the coke or pepsi lord what is your will for me the the bag of m m's uh candy or the snickers bar uh you don't really need to get into all of that um you know unless unless you're about to you know there's certain things you can eat uh that can do it can hurt the complexion of your skin and i know before i do recordings particularly for television don't eat don't eat the you know reese's pieces candy you know or stuff like that but it'll do a number on your skin uh certain things you learn that in life as you get older hey that's not good so it could be if you're about to eat something it could be the holy spirit would be like that that's not god's will for you don't eat that maybe some other time sure don't eat that right now that's not going to be that's not you're going to regret that by tomorrow when you have to go in front of the camera because makeup can do a lot but sometimes uh there are some things that make up could struggle to cover praise the lord so why why why do that why eat that when you can just get something else praise the lord but usually you don't have to go micro level but i would say other times on some things that you may think oh that's not that important maybe to the lord it is because the closer you get uh the more involved he doesn't get in these various chambers of your heart so i would just say cover on cover it all in prayer anything that the holy spirit is bringing up to you into your thought life while you're praying uh just go ahead and cover it you know sometimes i'll i'll take my pen and my my journal or not so much a journal but like a notepad and i'll just write it out you know because i've got like four or five things that pop up and so i'll just write them all out now lord what do you think about this is this a good idea is or this you know like what do you think about this and kind of cover it and uh sometimes the lord also will speak through other people not directly where they start saying thus saith the lord but they'll maybe bring up something that you've actually been thinking about or wondering about they'll bring it up or they'll discuss it or god will send somebody your way that maybe has knowledge of that or is an expert in that area and they'll just kind of come in and start talking and uh and you're thinking wow that's pretty that's pretty cool well that's the lord helping you sometimes some of the decisions we have to make it's more than just the lord giving you an answer it's also acquiring the necessary knowledge so that you can be informed and sometimes just that information alone is enough you can get your answer it's not like you need a voice out of heaven to speak to you you can make a decision on that now based upon the information that you have but the lord is very helpful just bring it all before him in prayer get a good sense of what is god's will for your life what is not and i would kind of drift back to this thing again like don't get your life all cluttered up not right now there's too much going on i mean this might be heavy for some of you but paul writing to the church in corinth said hey i would even recommend that if you're single and you you can like keep your cool you know in other words like you you can like uh maintain your singleness paul even said i would encourage you to stay single i wouldn't encourage you to get married mainly because of the times now uh culture and things like that have even deteriorated but uh and we're plus we're a lot closer to the lord's return but i would just say i would say you know ask the lord about these things ask him you know lord what is your will for my life in this area praise the lord the lord doesn't always say yes and you know what it's okay you'll find out that eve if he says no there'll be happiness in the in that no the reason i'm teaching this message is because when the lord appeared to me a couple days ago he was wearing the crown of thorns now you you and i both understand that he wore the crown of thorns uh 2000 years ago when he was there uh being uh you know just really worked over by the roman soldiers and they stuck that on his head and crucified him with it uh and so forth uh so he's not in heaven right now walking around with the cro with a crown of thorns uh but he he can do things that uh give a prophetic symbolism so when he appeared to me he uh he actually had the crown of thorns on his head and when he spoke to me he he had to speak through the the anguish that that that pain was causing him and i knew what he was also saying to me you don't always get everything that you want in life and it's not that the lord's trying to not bless you or hold back on you it's just that for your life uh there may be some things that are not on the the platter maybe they are for somebody else that's fine that's great i'm not envious or jealous of them but with your life uh it could be that the lord um you know would say no on certain things and he certainly had to understand that with his life uh his life was um it had a very it well it had the highest purpose okay so that meant because of that there were a lot of other things he had to say no to uh it just wasn't on the agenda so when you get closer to the lord sometimes you identify that because it's there can be some anguish in that some anguish like oh lord how come i can't go out and play like all the other kids can you know that's what a child says you know who's got to stay at home and finish his homework but you know of course then that child later grows up to be the genius or grows up to uh you know have something extra or special because while all the others were doing what they wanted he was doing something that had more of a long-term planned effect that paid off later so god knows what he's doing you know embrace uh all that he has for you it's all good even when it's related to the cross and it would seem like this is a difficult thing to carry praise god but it's it's what god has for you it is all good praise the lord there is joy in serving the lord there's joy in serving the lord praise god praise god i i can't help but think of uh one catholic priest his name i've talked about him often was joseph of cupertino uh from uh ossimo italy now he was born in cupertino that's why he was associated with that village and um he lived from 1603 to 1663 he was known in church history as the flying monk although i could i could uh probably list at least 50 probably more at least 50 very easily 50 people that also were known for levitating and just being flown all over by the holy spirit physically i'm talking physically going up not just in the catholic circles but even in evangelical circles and i've got pictures i've got i've got pictures on my phone even of pentecostal ministers off the floor while they were preaching suspended in the air by the holy spirit so this this is a body of christ thing this is not just a catholic thing but um the thing with joseph of cupertino of course was that you know he was just up you know so often they said he probably spent more time in the air than he actually did on the ground praise the lord so that's why he was known as the flying monk but you know he had a situation one time because of his unique calling um you know any you know how can i say he served under various popes he did go to rome once and he met the pope that was pope at that time and he was so excited when he met the pope that he started you know uh up he went in the air all over the place and the pope even said you know what when this guy passes away if if you need a witness in this canonization he said i'll certainly give testimony i've seen him flying before my own eyes but because of all of that flying around and the holy spirit lifting him up whenever joseph would go into a trance the catholic leadership was very wise and the pope and the leaders that you know his adviser said you know we've got to take this guy and put him in the most remote monasteries of italy because uh he's he's different he's special this is not something for the masses to you know this is not something for you know journalists to come out and write about this is something holy so they put him in the most remote monasteries and uh while he was in one of those monasteries um he so badly wanted to go out and join a like a a parade that was you know every year the the little village would have a parade and everybody would come out all the citizens would come out and all of the priests and the monks would go out they would march uh through the city and uh uh you know carry statues and glorify the lord and it was some kind of special feast day or something like that uh it is a catholic church every day is a feast day which is wonderful praise god and so um but joseph couldn't go he was never allowed ever to go outside of the monastery ever and so he was there in this little bitty you know sale where he would pray and he told the lord he said lord um he said can i go would you maybe give the you know the abbot the father of the monastery give him permission for me to get out and go and uh but you know they would never let him out not he hit the ruling was from rome the headquarters there in rome uh from the vatican no never let him out so it was always a no no no so he was there lord he was praying lord is there any way you could let me out i would just love to be in that parade with my brothers and the lord took him into a vision and showed him many of the brothers the monks that were marching in that parade and he the lord showed joseph that many of them that were marching even some of the ones carrying the cross and even quoting scriptures they marched the lord showed that some of them did not particularly the ones that were being vocal carrying the cross and uh readings verses they did not have their hearts right with him they had they had areas of strife areas of jealousy you know jealous jealous of their brother or stuff like that and when he saw all of the discord that was in that group he said lord thank you for not allowing me to go now i actually don't want to go and the lord didn't want him in that he didn't want him in in that you know all that jealousy and competition and uh just like in a corporate arena that can get into a church i've seen it get into ministries or you could get into a monastery and uh those things can really grieve the holy spirit so sometimes uh you know you have to realize if the lord says no it's not like he's trying to dampen your fun he's he's guarding you he's protecting you and the closer you get he can he can be very very um uh there's a righteous jealousy there is a righteous jealousy and the lord wants you for himself hallelujah you're not a uh you're not a commodity for you know everybody to just uh eat up and devour praise the lord and there are there are those who are called to public ministry i'm called the public ministry you know that's why i'm sitting here and that's why i you know talking to you and i go out and do meetings and things like that but there are some things there are times when god says turn the camera off this is not for public consumption there are some stories there are some things don't tell it when jesus came off of the the mountain where the transfiguration took place the first thing he said to peter james and john don't tell this vision to anybody until after i have been raised from the dead and of course they really wondered what he meant by being raised from the dead what all that meant but they did get the point don't tell the story this is not for us to come down and tell everybody uh to do it to tell would do more harm than good it would just confuse people so there are some things you can share there are some other things uh no you can't share them at least not in this setting or perhaps during this time or amongst this group so now later they could talk about it and that's why we have uh those stories recorded in the various gospel accounts of the transfiguration experience but at that point jesus said when it happened don't tell this to anybody praise the lord and so my friends the lord you get close to him things are different even with the way you pray even with what you ask for and it's been said before but be very careful what you ask because if it's all good to go you're going to get it you're going to get it if you really hang in there keep praying stay on it in faith you're going to get it so you really need to know up front is this what you want before it shows up because it's coming praise the lord so you know we are all made in a in a way where we have a maximum capacity even your your soul from the level of uh the ability to you can only have so many conversations in the day before your mind gets tired and you and you're like i can't do one more text i can't do one more phone call i am totally emptied out you have a place we all have a place where you hit that maximum level so the last thing you want to do is so stack your life so full that uh you're just like now being pushed into overload all the time that's not good that's not good praise the lord my friends the the the throne of heaven is open right now i'm getting this very strong in my spirit the the very court room of god is open go before the lord and tell the lord what your supplication or petition is say lord this is what i want lord but i also want to make sure that this is okay with you lord what do you think about this and talk it over with the lord don't rush in don't rush out enjoy your time with god and give the time give the lord time to respond he may respond in that prayer session he may not but just talk it over gently with the lord and bring it before the lord he would really appreciate that he wants to be involved in every every major decision of your life and even and even in some ways even in the smaller areas you'll find out he would love to get into that area be involved in that too and he would like for you to seek his wisdom on that so heaven's wide open go before your father in prayer pray to him in the name of jesus talk to him like you would talk to a best friend pour your heart out to god yes we understand we'll keep the element of reverence and respect there because he is our heavenly father but he wants to you want you to talk to him from your heart don't go before him with all kinds of theological terms like you've got to be you know talking like that that's not the real you uh a lot of theologians uh could sometimes be real dry and their teaching on god is almost like the same they might as well be teaching on dinosaurs they're they're teaching about something that they have book knowledge of but they do not let me say it like this they've never met a dinosaur so in the same way they've never had intimate encounters with the lord so the last thing you want to do is like use these long words or you know start saying thee and thou and stuff like that you don't need to do that just go before the father and talk to him from your heart and he'll be very happy to see you there in his throne room heavenly father i pray for your people i pray you bless them let them be on target with their request thank you thank you father god it's going to be good some prayers are going to get answered real quick others yes there will be that faith development but they're going to be encouraged because some things are going to come lightning fast literally even on the same day father we give you praise for it we thank you we ask this in the name of jesus we agree and pray and say amen praise god if you've watched today's program but you do not know god as your father and you don't know jesus his son or the holy spirit today can be your day of salvation if you would like to get your life right with god or if you're a backslidden christian and you're away from god and you've you're in all kinds of sin and darkness it's time for you to come back too if you're watching and you want to get your heart right with god pray this prayer after me say lord jesus come into my heart wash my sin away give me your newness of life give me that new life of yours of your own life lord thank you jesus write my name in your book of life i give my heart to you now thank you jesus for saving me thank you for saving me right now i receive you as my lord and savior thank you jesus amen if you prayed that prayer he has now become the lord of your life now look for him and serve him hallelujah praise god and if you have prayed that prayer email me i'd love to hear from you you can email me at contact stephenbrooks.org praise god now let's take holy communion together and if you've just become a christian you can do that with us and the other believers that are gathered around the internet right now just grab some unleavened bread i use these little wafers you can buy them in any christian bookstore you can buy them online or just use a little cracker that's all that you have and you can use grape juice that's that's what i use praise the lord hallelujah praise the lord thank you father let's pray father we thank you for the bread and the juice we pray over it and we pray a prayer of sanctification and set this apart as holy this is a prayer of consecration this is set apart as something sacred and holy this is now the body and the blood of jesus father when we look at it with our physical eyes we still see a little wafer and juice but we thank you that the body and the blood of christ is veiled or hidden through this grape juice and this little piece of bread father we thank you that when we receive this we are receiving the flesh of jesus hallelujah thank you father that all of your promises are yes and amen help us to jump in there and pray through them and take what rightfully belongs to us and move forward in the unique callings and path that you have for each and every one of us as individuals and also as a corporate body collective body of believers thank you father we receive the lord's body now in his name amen let's partake hallelujah father thank you for the blood of jesus we thank you for the blood of jesus flowing and cleansing us continually from all sin from all unrighteousness and we thank you also for this amazing blessing of the new covenant of having a clean conscience before you where all of our sins are washed away forgiven and even forgotten thank you oh god we receive that and we receive the blood of jesus and we thank you for answering our prayers and helping us to pray according to what is your will for our lives glory glory praise god praise god father in the name of jesus let us always bring it before you for your blessing and for your approval in jesus name amen let's let's receive the blood of jesus praise the lord could you imagine being a christian and you're going to get married and you don't even ask god what he thinks about your potential spouse hello somebody's been out to lunch thank you jesus wow but yet christians do it all the time um and and then when it doesn't turn out good god it's your fault for giving me this this wife or this husband god's like i think that's your own doing i tried to tell you but you never even asked me can i share a tip uh that i've learned through personal encounters with the lord that's not in any commentary or any theological book that you're going to read can i tell you something right now worth more than gold for those of you that stuck around all the way to the end of this message even after the communion here it is there are some things that the lord knows now you you and i both know he knows everything right okay he's god but let me say it like this there are some things that god knows about you that he will not tell you unless you ask him even if it's imperative that you know even if it's extremely important that you know there are some things he just flat out won't tell you unless you ask him so i would highly encourage him i would highly encourage you say lord hey if there's something that i don't know that i need to know lord i'm all ears now pastor stephen why wouldn't somebody pray a prayer like that because they're loaded with pride just like a baked potato loaded with butter and sour cream and chives and uh there are some christians so loaded with pride they're like a baked potato they think they know more than god they wouldn't ask him for anything they've got all the answers or so they think that's why their life is so dry and cooped up and goofy and unspiritual because they are excluding god from their life not from the area of salvation but from the area of laying their life down and being led by him really god just wants his best for you he knows what's best if you'll let go and let god he'll lead you into pastors that are so green that are so pleasing that are so happy praise the lord he's the original manufacturer of you he knows how you tick he knows what makes you work [Laughter] praise god praise god so there are some things that god knows that he won't tell you unless you ask him even even if it's extremely important that you know them and he can stay you can have a visitation from jesus he can stand right in front of you he won't say a word about it i've had this happen before but because i've asked while he was there he answered me and later i thought my goodness what if i had not have asked that of him now you may not have a vision but you can go before your father in prayer and still get the same result you can still find out if you really want to know heaven is open right now the throne is open go before your father he's waiting for you thank you for joining me today i'll see you back next time till then stay richly blessed